Expert Explains Why Women Fall in Love With Inmates - ATTN:
A stable person with good judgment would not normally choose to date someone in prison or who just got out of prison. It's definitely a red flag if your mentee. Includes profiles and photos of incarcerated men and women seeking correspondence and Receiving a letter is the highlight of the day for most prisoners. Charm, intelligence, a solid career are all things women typically look for in a partner. But for some women, it's the men locked away in prison.
From the information that this confession provides, it does not seem as though this man has killed or harmed anyone, but armed robbery is a serious and violent crime, and she should be thinking long and hard before letting someone like that into her life.
Especially because he has only just been released from prison. Can people change and be rehabilitated? I believe they can, but does this happen straight after or during their prison sentence? The good news for this couple is that the inmate has just got out, and they now have the opportunity to pursue this relationship and see if there is anything real between them. Well, despite this women thinking she really connected with the guy while he was behind bars, there is a just one little problem: And she'll have to seriously consider whether this former inmate is worth destroying her marriage for.
But then at the same time, if she's thinking about wanting to be with someone else, her relationship with her husband probably has some issues.
This woman claims to have met her husband on Facebook while he was in prison. However, this couple is one of the few success stories, because the love they developed for each other while he was away was real, and it has a lovely happy ending. According to this women, not only are she and her husband very happy, but they are also expanding their little family because she's pregnant.
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Long distance relationships are always incredibly difficult, but being married to someone who is behind bars takes things to a whole new level because their communication with the outside world is limited. Still, it turns out that this works for some people. According to her confession, she met her husband while he was in prison. She obviously wanted to make her relationship work and was initially dedicated to waiting out his sentence, but now she regrets her decision.
She offers up no background information as to what he did to land himself behind bars, and whether his offenses are the reason she wants to drop his last name and alienate herself from him, but she is thinking about making some serious changes. Sometimes there are certain things in life which just run their course and then it's time to move on, and it seems as though this was one of those times.
Instead, she has decided to get attention from another man, one who is behind bars.Dating A Prisoner ( Q and A )
Having given this a lot of thought for reasons we need not go intothe following might shed some light on why a woman might want to date a prisoner though it doesn't explain why she goes through with it. She has l ow self-esteem These girls don't think much of themselves so they will appreciate anyone who looks at them.
She has a strong desire to be in a relationship Some girls feel that being in a relationship makes you complete. I suspect it doesn't take much to be 'in a relationship' with a prisoner, so it's really a quick fix to fill the void, so to speak, while you're searching for other options on the 'outside'.
A hint, ladies, coming your way: If good-looking guys are passing you by, there's a reason for it; look over yourself critically and work it out literally in some cases She's an ugly trout and feels she's out of options There I said it!
She's drop dead gorgeous and just wants to spread it around She works there A combo of any of the above She likes the idea of having someone who will admire her and tell her how special, beautiful and wonderful she is All women like to be told they are beautiful.
Inmates take advantage of this desire to seduce receptive girls by flattery. Women crave this type of attention and are basically vulnerable to this sort of exploitation by nature. She's so kind she's a true innocent and will only believe what she wants to believe There's no help for that sort of mindset, unfortunately. She likes being in control of the romance and the entire relationship Women who may have experienced abusive relationships in the past might want to date inmates; preferably those serving a life sentence without parole.
This is the safest kind of relationship for any woman really simply because the man is not physically there so there is no possibility of the relationship turning violent. She's intent on keeping the relationship at the 'romance' level Quite often, these girls never get to have any physical contact with their man so the entire relationship is played out in their minds; once again, the script of how the romance unfolds is entirely theirs.
The cause usually involves getting money from the women to pay for extra food or fund appeals on their behalf etc etc. These fellows need to get as many people as possible to help them so they develop a real flair for reeling vulnerable girls in. And who could blame them?
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If you were stuck in jail for a very long time, you might want to do the same. I know I would. It would certainly help pass the time Dating a prisoner gives them the security they seek. She wants to help him Never mind that she might need a lot of help herself, she's determined to help the less fortunate no matter what the personal cost.
She's looking for a soulmate And now she may have found him 'cause the dude will feed her whatever she wants to hear in spades. They went to high school together Back then she thought he was hot; he thought she was not. Back then he thought nothing of her 'cause he never noticed her But now he's changed his mind.
She met him at a bus stop once and now they've rekindled Possibly. I wish them well.
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Could it be that she's simply an idiot? I'll leave that up to you to decide. And on the flip side: The above list is not set in stone, obviously, as stupidity is a bottomless well, but the list represents all I could think of. If you have anything to add to this, feel free to do so in the comments.
BTW, you do realize this is for your amusement only, don't you? So let's just keep on keeping it real, is all I'm saying.
Can dating an inmate ever work? If not in here, why out there? Phone conversations and erotic letter writing are ways to gauge if a spark exists. Do they have a preoccupation with sex? Every bit of information is a clue to better knowing your potential partner. This is one of the safest and earliest ways to test compatibility while still locked up.
Who comes to see them?
Do they have multiple names there? If they are reluctant to show you their approved visiting list, is there a reason? Perhaps those names are your competition. The same way you are looking for love, others are as well. All prisoners have access to their list, so ask for a copy. Do they stay in contact with family? Are they estranged from them? What level of contact do they have? Some families lacked closeness prior to the person coming to prison.
In other situations, the separation was a direct correlation to their behaviors. Did they sell the family television? Did they steal silverware, jewelry, the family dog?
If unable to mend family ties, if they lack the desire to do so, those could be indicators. People who have more support and connections tend to do better upon release, giving you and your relationship one less struggle to manage.
Is this person who they represent? What are the subtle and glaring misrepresentations?
We all have them, even in the free world. Women have their hair extensions and whatever other enhanced aspects to them and men do as well. It could be as simple as faking fashion sense and style. Do you really know about their hygiene habits? Are they who they say they are? In here there are many ways to make money, selling artwork and the such, but another one is letter writing.